I believe a woman should be feminine and well-groomed all the time, primarily for herself. But do not get me wrong, it does not mean she should wear too much makeup and look “fake”.
This is where we should apply the mantra “less is more”, and this is primarily related to the hairstyle. Every woman should always have a nice hairstyle and be able to maintain it, and not only the one on her head, but also the lower one.
My dear ladies, if you haven’t tried out more drastic measures for beautification of your pubic area so far, it’s time to do it now. It will affect everything in your life, not just sex. You will be more beautiful to yourself, feel more comfortable in certain clothing, and besides all of this, you will be more relaxed while having sex. Your partner will notice both a new “haircut” and your good mood. I promise you, there’s no greater aphrodisiac than that.
Why do I recommend shaving?
There are two basic ways to remove natural, undesirable phenomena in the crotch area. The first one is waxing, of course, but only for removing the hairs located on the edge of the groins. I don’t recommend that you do the waxing treatment on the sensitive pubic areas yourself, unless you’re a professional. One of the top pubic hair removal treatments is best known as Brazilian waxing, recognizable by a vertical line of pubic hair (the line’s width depends on your choice) on the mound of Venus. If you wish, the Brazilian treatment doesn’t have to leave any hair at all, and the lack of hair is known as the ‘Hollywood’ or ‘Yul Brynner’ hairstyle. However, the wax can cause various adverse skin reactions, so short-term results aren’t worth the devoted effort and time, and epilators aren’t recommended for groin and crotch hair removal. Because of these and many other reasons, I recommend shaving. After all, it’s easier to maintain, shape and play with different forms of hairstyles.
Do not save on material
Due to strong hairs in the pubic area, you need to use a new, high quality razor. You can use it several times, but keep in mind not to use it for other body parts. The razors with movable head and multiple blades are the best, so they will help you accomplish your goal quickly and efficiently, each time. It’s also recommended that you use shaving foam, such as those designed for men with sensitive skin. In my opinion the best one is Gillette non-foaming shave gel because it really works.
Most people will recommend some light, fragrance and additive-free body lotion, but I personally prefer baby creams.
First of all, shorten the hair
Before you start shaving, you need to shorten the hair’s length. Trim the hair where you’re planning to shave. It would be best to use a small trimmer with the shortest delimiter. It’s best when the haircut’s length doesn’t exceed 1.5 to 2 cm, but that’s a matter of taste. If you don’t have a trimmer, do not panic, because you can shorten the hair with scissors too, but it will take more time.
Soften the skin and hair with warm water before shaving
So, the first thing you need to do is take a shower or a bath and then start shaving, because once the skin is soft enough it is easier to reduce the possibility of consequences such as skin irritation or ingrown hairs. After you wash off shower gel, shampoo and other, find a comfortable position and start shaving. Make sure you don’t shave or wax during menstrual period, which is, after all, the perfect opportunity to relax the skin in that area.
Shaving any part of the body starts firstly in the direction of hair growth. In most cases, it is downwards. In this way you’ll remove the hair from all desired areas, and always make sure to rinse the razor after each move. When you shave the labia, make sure you stretch one side first and then the other, in order not to shave something you don’t want to. Rinse the razor and do the whole procedure all over again, but this time in the opposite direction of hair growth. When you are satisfied with the result and think you are done, rinse the whole area and pat it dry. Don’t rub the shaved skin, at least not for a while.
Creams & lotions
As mentioned above, most people will recommend some light, fragrance-free body lotions, containing no additives, but I still sick to baby creams only. Whichever product you decide to use, apply it well to the bare skin area and let the skin breathe a little bit, before you get dressed.
Do you want to surprise your boyfriend for anniversary or Valentine’s Day? Try to experiment with shapes. This playful, sexy style leaves your entire pubic area bare except for a shaped patch directly above your genitals, and it also leaves your boyfriend speechless. Just keep it simple: popular shapes include a small triangle, a heart, or for those of you who are more daring – a star. I know this all might sound a bit complicated, but it’s really not at all.
You know those paper or paperboard patterns which can easily be found especially during the holidays? Yes, I mean the festive ones. Well, just go to the nearest bookstore or gift shop and choose the one you like most. Or even more than one. Of course, you can also make your own template. For example, you can print the first letter of his name (on a thick paper) and that way create your own template and surprise him for his birthday. It’s all up to you, just let your imagination run wild and be creative. But try to avoid too complicated templates and make sure the one you choose fits you by the size.
Instructions for making sexy “haircuts”
Do you have paper templates with you right now? Great! So let’s start. You will take the inner part of the template. Choose one and reach for the cream mentioned above or a similar greasy body lotion. Smear the cream on one side of the template and paste it to the pubic hair area. In this case, it is best to use a shaving or bathing oil instead of shaving foam or gel, because the surface needs to be transparent. So let’s do the job now. Press the template firmly with your hand and keep it in the same place and position all the time. Pay special attention to the template edges when you come close to that area. I will say that again, it is easier if you have a small trimmer just for that. Follow the steps above, start shaving in the direction of hair growth, but don’t get too close to the template edges. Once you have designed the sketch, remove the template and clean the area as much as you can, using wet wipes. Now take a razor again and refine the resulting design thoroughly, this time using the razor in the opposite direction of the hair growth. It does not have to be perfect. Even when your partner gets close enough he will not notice anything, and he will certainly not think about finding some imperfections. Just relax, enjoy your new haircut and have fun!